Specializing in life transitions: college students, young adults (Gen Z and Millennials), identity issues, grief and loss
Specializing in trauma-informed care: single traumas (car accident, natural disaster, sexual assault), grief and loss, domestic abuse and family violence, attachment and family of origin issues
Specializing in spirituality: deconstruction/deconstruction, spiritual trauma, church hurt, Christian perspective offered

I’m so glad you’re here. This is the space for you if…

  • You unnecessarily say, “I’m sorry,” and want to feel more comfortable taking up space.

  • You question if your experiences are/were “that bad” and want a sense of both clarity and healing.

  • You feel exhausted by how you show up for the people in your life and wonder if caring has to feel this way.

  • You feel like you’re somehow both too much and not enough and want to feel whole instead.

  • You are questioning your beliefs and want to explore and develop them without judgement.

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For overwhelming feelings

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For life’s transitions

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For trauma-informed care

  • Single traumas (car accident, natural disaster, sexual assault)
  • Grief and loss
  • Domestic abuse and family violence
  • Attachment and family of origin issues
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For faith-based support

  • Deconstruction/reconstruction
  • Church hurts and spiritual trauma
  • Christian perspective offered

The Process

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🤝During our first session, I provide everything you need to know about our work together.

📖We create a safe space for you to start sharing your story and whatever you feel is important for me to know.

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🫶Over the next several sessions, we’ll continue making sure this is a comfy space for you to talk about the uncomfortable.

🧩We’ll start learning about parts of you that feel conflicted, overwhelmed, and stuck.

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👑We’ll meet weekly or biweekly to help all parts of you feel less stressed and more confident!

🩹We’ll pay special attention to any worsening symptoms triggered by talking about tender issues.

🌎You’ll start to see shifts in your relationships with others as you strengthen your relationship with yourself!

Meet the Therapist

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Alyssa Koelemay

LSWAIC

Supervised by Amy Sponsler, LICSW

Mind-Body Connection

“My stomach is knots.” “My coworker is a pain in the neck.” “That breaks my heart.” “My heart was beating out of my chest.” “I’m just tired of this.” Our brain registers physical and psychological pain the same way. And just like a physical injury can lead to other complications if it doesn’t heal properly, painful emotions can become trapped in our bodies if they aren’t fully processed. We’ll explore the ways emotions show up in your body. You’ll earn how to listen to your body’s cues on emotional discomfort and how to change your brain by starting with your body.

Skills Training

We’ll start with mindfulness skills: how to be present in your body and environment without judging, attaching to, or rejecting your thoughts. We’ll begin to build other skills on top of this, like how to keep the body in a calm state, how to move through emotions instead of avoiding them, how to challenge thought patterns that keep you in the same spiral, and how to communicate your feelings and boundaries to others.

Measurement-Based Care

You are the expert on your life. So you decide the direction of therapy. I use regular assessments and check-ins to track your mental health over time and give you a voice in your treatment. We will get to make connections between life circumstances, skills we’re working on, and your symptoms. This regular feedback strengthens the therapeutic relationship and improves the likelihood of reaching your goals.